what they won't tell you

I feel bad for PNM's asking all these questions about recruitment because the truth is, at least for the top sororities, that recruitment is 99% dependent on looks and how hot you are. You can have the best personality, be the nicest person in the world, be so funny and cool, but if you aren't good looking you just aren't gonna get a bid to Alpha Phi, KD, Theta, Tri Delt etc... it just doesn't happen. If a sorority is on the fence between two girls, they're going to take the hotter one 10 times out of 10. Its just how it is not only at this school but nearly every school across the world.