Aphi good?????or no

No sweatie, ato is the top sorority on campus!

Yes Aphi is selective.

Aphi is one of the top houses based on looks and who they social with, but they are known to be egotistical and mean, however there are pros and cons to each house, and I suggest keeping an open mind during recruitment because most sororities on campus here are pretty similar, no matter the ranking.

Alpha phi and tridelt are considered the top two sororities with Theta and kd the top 4. If you want those houses - based on social, looks, activities like sports, student council, cheerleading and dance. Popularity....
Aopi is also popular.
Snapped podcast years ago with a girl who was focused on getting into alpha phi and the not happy. When you go through rush, don't get so caught up in popular versus where you will feel comfortable and be happy. Being in a sorority you are miserable in .... those houses have a lot of pretty girls and it can feel competitive and superficial. Very confident girls used to being popular and pretty. All the houses party together.

They’re horrible! Very nasty and only care about looks!

I'm in alpha phi and no we do not care only about looks? That's a crazy thing to say? Unless you are in our house - how would you know? My friend is in a house considered mid tier and she finds my alpha phi friends nicer! But honestly, in every sorority it's really about your pledge class and the friends you make in your pledge class. We all get along but every pledge class breaks into crowds of 4 to 6 girls.
If you are already asking advice on how to get into alpha phi versus actually going through rush and meeting our house and seeing if you "click"??? I didn't choose alpha phi before I went through rush, I went through rush and sifted through houses during rush like everyone else. Rush in general can feel competitive. You'll see girls crying... that can be hard. My roommate had her heart set on one sorority and ended up in another but is very happy. It worked out. I honestly liked 4 houses and then 2 and would have been happy in either or. My roommate and I got dresses together and looked similar but it really comes down to personality fit. Your conversations during rush. Anyone calling me horrible??? Does that sound nice? I wouldn't say that about anyone honestly without knowing them. We have over 100 girls??? My friends are sweet and fun.....