disappointed pnm looking for advice
by: Pnm
I know everyone will say this site sucks and isn’t true but I just wanna hear some thoughts from current sisters. I couldn’t go thru recruitment freshman year because of another commitment. I went through last year and had all “top tier” chapters until pref, where I only got ADPi. I was so upset because I felt like I really connected with girls at those chapters and they all seemed excited about me.
Now I’m a junior but taking an extra year for my masters. I was on the fence about coming back because I’m older but my rho gams told me pha changed the rules about juniors so I had a much better chance. I got dropped after values round from all the sororities I liked. I really dislike ADPi, SDT, gamma phi, and DG. I don’t see myself in deeph. I kind of liked phi sig but I’ve heard bad things about their reputation. I don’t care what frats think since I have a boyfriend who isn’t Greek but I just don’t want to be labeled as “bottom tier”. Any thoughts? Please don’t be judgmental about coming on here I just want some feedback
#1by: I'm sorry
I'm really sorry that you are having a hard time, but honestly you seem like you are struggling more with how you will be perceived than actually giving some of these houses a real chance. The houses you mentioned are all really good. It's hard for anyone to give you advice on how to be happy if you yourself won't be happy unless you are accepted by the people you think you should be accepted by. Good luck.
Comment#2by: Drop
#4by: Sorry
I'm sorry that you feel this way, but I'm in one of the chapters you mentioned and it saddens me that you have missed out on not only one year but probably now two years of making friends for life and being in a sisterhood. I love my sisters and found my home. It seems like you are more worried about how people perceive you then actually even getting the chance to be perceived. Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.
by: @sorry
#6by: Wow
This is really sad. I feel like you may have been happy if you would have just given these Sorororities a chance. Now you won't be in any Sorority and get a chance to meet some incredible women. I know these women are incredible because I'm in one of the many you mentioned that you dislike.
#7by: Geez
No one wants to be labeled bottom tier, even the women that are in those Sorororities.
The thing is, these Sorority women love their Sororities and it's because of that they work hard to show everyone just how great they are. You should not base yours and all these other women's worth on a small group of simple minded peoples opinions. It isn't reality and you are allowing it to impede your happiness.
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by: Well
It sounds like it's just not going to happen for you. You are unwilling to accept those that are willing to accept you.
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