Sororities Closing

I am in what is considered a bottom house. You are all right, we do struggle to get PNMs and we do have inconsistency in our houses because of that. However, all this mean girl crap that goes on on this site is not helping. Everyone is so caught up in how the frats rank them. After freshman or sophomore year, the frat parties are just meat markets and you get over it. Freshman look at this site and base almost all of their decisions on this and a few other places. I get it--we are not filled with the hottest influencers who are 5'7' and 110 pounds but we do have great people who want their own sisterhood and support. So many PNMs dropped out of rush b/c they did not want to be in one of the bottom houses which is such a shame. We know we have things to work on, but we can never fix these things if we are battling against Greek Rank and mean girls. I would hope that other sororities at the top would want to support the full greek system but it always seems like you are all critical and demeaning to the bottom 5. We are going to lose at least 1-2 houses in the next 5 years if not sooner and it will continue unless we all come together and support each other's growth. The bottom houses will never compete with the top houses for girls but we can get a lot of other types of girls who will flourish with us. Does everyone only want the top 5 houses to exist? What do you think will happen then? Someone needs to be the bottom house--will it then be DG or PiPhi until they close? Do you want a world of just KKG, Alpha Phi and Theta? From a percentage standpoint, very few people at UCLA are in sororities so if we want to thrive, we need to support each other. There are many different women at UCLA and not all fit into the stereotypical sorority girl but want a sisterhood and the bottom 5 are great for them. The sad part is, I don't think people will stop with the awful things they say and we will end up closing another sorority. For example, everyone is attacking GPhi who is just trying to grow (no I am not in that one). People are vicious with them and why? So what if they had a good rush year--how about saying good for you instead of cutting them down? We will never fix this problem if we don't support each other.

A company just bought ADG house and is turning into a communal living house. This will start to change the row if this keeps happening. Please stop the mean girl crap.