How to Get into a Top House?

I am just looking for some tips on how to get a bid from Alpha Phi, Theta, KKG, or DG. I recently committed to UCLA and have wanted to be in Greek Life for a while. Please don't call me superficial, everyone has an idea of houses that they are interested in before recruitment, and these are the ones that I'm interested in. It's just how a lot of people think before rushing. If you don't agree just don't comment!

I've looked at all of their social medias and the vibes of the girls in those 4 houses stand out to me. Also my cousin goes to UCLA and he told me a little bit about the sororities here. I'm just wondering what the top houses are looking for in a P.N.M.

I posted this a few weeks ago and came back to look for it but it was deleted for some reason(??) so I am asking again. Any truthful and helpful responses would be appreciated.