been crying all day
by: Che
I thought rush was going great. Yesterday at pref round I went to my two favorite houses A phi and Pi Phi. I thought it went well. I ranked them signed my MRBA card and waited. This morning I got a phone call from my rho gamma telling me not to show up to bid day because I had not been offered a bid from either of my two pref round houses
My heart dropped I’ve been crying all day !!! What makes it worse my two roommates got houses.
I don’t know what happened /: I’m srill in shock I can’t believe it I’m so sad !!!
Should I have kept a lower ranked house so I could use it as a back up ? Idk I’m distraught :(
Any words of encouragement ??
#1by: Kng
#2by: :(
#3by: Thanks
Can I just say I’m so happy for the responses of support in this post
Most comments on Greek rank are such petty and even vile responses
This level of support on this thread tho shows there are good people and thank you for the encouragement and also for sharing your own stories
#5by: truth
@ok - but as I understood it those calls are for the girls that only list one sorority ("suicide"). Not for girls that list both sororities.
@Real Greek - but sororities don't drop girls after pref. They rank them all. I know my sorority cannot cut a girl at pref. We can only rank them dead last on the list. At almost all schools that's why if you list both houses you are guaranteed a bid. And if you're dead last on both lists and they fill up quota before they get to you, that doesn't matter...you get placed as a quota addition.
Obviously I'm not a Pi Phi or Alpha Phi, I just know with my sorority we cut girls before pref because we cannot "cut" a girl after pref. And I understood it as the only way you don't get one of the two is if you choose to not list one of the sororities after pref on purpose.
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by: Hm
Yeah I’m pretty sure you’re guaranteed a bid if you have two houses on pref and you don’t suicide rush, or you did something completely awful and broke a Panhel rule that dropped you from rush at the last minute