cob vs rushing as a sophomore?

I have a few friends in chi o that i could ask about cob. I have friends in g phi but they already told me that they think the pledge class is over quota.

None of the middle tier or top tier are taking extra girls they are all at or above quota. Panhellenic will not allow them to take more girls this year.

At this point take what you can get if you’ve been offered a COB definitely go and try it out.

Rushing as a sophomore, you’ll hear people say is fine. That’s true for FIRST TIME sophomore rushees (aka they didn’t rush as freshmen) but someone who rushes TWICE it’s seen as a negative and makes you less desirable than the first time sophomore rushees and transfer juniors. Since you are all under one quota. I would not recommend rushing AGAIN in formal recruitment especially since some of the chapters (including dg I believe) have a cut once cut always policy. Meaning if you did formal rush and were cut by them (as you were last year) you will automatically have to be cut the next time around. This is not true for all houses it depends on the national policy of each house but usually top houses have too many choices and cuts to make

I really despise girls who get bids during rush and drop out of the process because they THINK they’re better than the house they got. Girl you’re not all that they place oh where you belong
And you’re a mean person for dropping knowing that other girls get cut and out took a space that you eventually vacated because you couldn’t get over yourself

if youre offered COB i would take it
one in the hand ...