how is gphi not doing better

This is so accurate. I went through recruitment this year and from my conversations, wayyyy more people felt that ADPi was better/more genuine. They did come across very artificial and I personally had a few girls not listening to a word I was saying during the GPhi parties I went to. I would say something about myself, like my job, just to be asked by the end of my sentence, “Awesome! Soooo do you have a job?!” Like c’mon... I get it’s a long weekend, but it was a huge red flag for me and was one of the many things that came off disingenuous. I’d personally rank ADPi above GPhi. I also know that the creepy snapping turned off a lot of girls too. Again this is just from my personal opinion and the conversations I had with other pnms at the time.