who do i rush

You should look into people who share your values where you can see yourself growing into a better person and enjoying yourself in their company. You should avoid people who you feel like you would have to change for or people who don't make you feel good.

What organization that is for you depends on who you are as a person. People will try to tell you one organization is "better" than the other but you really have to make your own decisions based off what is right for you.

Remember that one person is not the whole organization, so try to meet as many Greek men as you can. Club Fair and Meet the Greeks (August 27th 5-7 on the York Lawn) are good places to start making connections.