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period ii update

by: Raidette

PNM's, please let us know your thoughts on recruitment so far. Please keep it positive. If you want to share a negative experience from today, please don't name the chapter. What do you think of the chapters vs. what you read on here before rush?

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#1  by: PNM   
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A lot of girls are getting confused when the girls walking them out tell them they hope to see them back. It gives false hope and disappoints them when they aren't brought back the next day

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by: RaiderdaterAug 20, 2015 8:46:31 AM

That's good feedback. Actives are trained on what they can and cannot say, but sometimes things slip out. It may be just from politeness or it could be that these girls really do hope to see you back and are going to be just as disappointed when you miss the cutoff. Either way, it's a good reminder for the actives to choose your words carefully the next two days!

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by: PMN2Aug 20, 2015 9:24:18 AM

Yes I completely agree! Even if they have intention to bring me back it makes it uncomfortable because there really isn't a great response. Even when I love the house and want to come back I don't know what to say in fear of sounding forward or desperate!

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#2  by: Raiderdater   
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If you gushed about loving a house on Day 1, you might come off as desperate. At this point, it's good to be honest with a house you love. The chapters are also picking based on who they think wants them so if you don't show interest, they might cut you if you're on the edge. Be honest today and for sure be honest at pref!

You can say how much you admire the house (and reasons why) and that you feel really at home there. You can say that although you love all the houses (stay positive!), house XYZ is your favorite. The message is received without you looking like a psycho.

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