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Truly, don't worry! All of the houses have received your resumes and applications and pictures. If you had recommendation letters they have those too! Some of the girls will naturally be more visible than others before recruitment starts. Don't worry! Yes, the houses are checking up on you. We have to be sure you will be an asset to our membership. These lists change every day. Sometimes a pnm that looks great on paper is a real mess in person.

Even if you aren't on our focus list, you can get yourself on it! Come to each party excited and happy to learn about us. Have good conversations and show genuine interest. If you like our house, tell us! If you were happy to be invited back, let us know. This is huge. We want women who want us and we will tell our sisters to look out for you.

Legacies are always given extra attention but be aware that being a legacy does not guarantee a bid. Most of the houses at tech have cut legacies.

What you should do right now is clean up your social media, get your outfits in order, bring comfortable shoes to change into then relax and have fun.

Also, please know that you will be cut from a house you love. You'll have a great time and think they love you too, and they probably did. It's just how the numbers ended up that day. Try to let it go and focus on the houses you have left. It all works out.

Good advice here.