I'm seeing all this stuff about Aphi as a pnm

okay so aphi likes to dirty rush with their dirty mouths! girl if you care about your image and want to actually gain anything from ur sorority.... don't go aphi. theres a reason people have so much to say

girls go aphi because they got dropped by pi phi, kappa and theta. that's about it

I personally know a ton of ppl who love being an aphi as well as people who love aphis... honestly they're just known as a fun house with a ton of pretty girls (some ppl claim that their "mean" when really they just don't know them). Everyone is quick to talk about a single member who made a mistake. Their sisterhood is strong and it shows when they do what they can to help that girl rather than to "kick her out". Not a single sorority is perfect which is why it's all about finding a place that has your back in almost any situation in my opinion. Not saying what she did wasn't wrong but she's a freshman who's already embarrassed enough so dragging her entire sorority down that's there to help her is ridiculous. I'd go through recruitment with an open mind and catch all of the vibes yourself.

Aphi is a pretty good house in general. They dont have the top house reputation like pi phi, but if you're looking for another house that's upper tier and social, its a good option. I liked them when I went through rush so nothing to complain about there.

Go where you belong.

basically ^^