is bid day really the “best day?”

ok so I might just be talking to a lot of trolls or actives that this doesn’t apply to anymore, but to any pnms on here, Ik that every house tries so hard to sell bid day to you as being the best day ever, like Christmas, etc, but PLEASE don’t get discouraged if that ends up not being your experience. It wasn’t for me, and yes I was in PC ‘20 where no parents and few actives were there, but ik it can still feel this way for people regardless if there’s a pandemic or not. And don’t get me wrong I LOVE my house now, and I did from the beginning, but I showed up on bid day after an exhausting week not knowing a soul with everyone wearing the same outfit and a face mask, so it was very hard to meet/distinguish people and I just kinda sat there since none of the people who rushed me were allowed to be there. A lot of what went wrong for me probably won’t be an issue for pc ‘21.. I hope bid day IS like Christmas to each of you, but if it feels kind of off just know you’re not alone. If bid day is your peak moment in your house—when you don’t know anyone yet, something is wrong lol