help

For girls is hard but for guys it's not hard one bit. It's almost not fair. But you will be fine. I know plenty of girls who get the house they want. And occasionally the jr haha

I had a great experience rushing as a sophomore and obviously since this is anonymous I feel like I can be 100% upfront about it. I got dropped by one house which was completely different than I had expected, I was so afraid to get dropped by every house because I was older. I had some good friends at tech in 2 of the middle/lower tier houses but other than that I didn't know anymore. I really worked hard finding good letters of rec and transferred in from another school with a 3.8. I don't come from money, I didn't have good connections, and am very plain looking. I HONESTLY think that if you are above the grade cutoff you can go into every house and have incredible conversation and any house will take you. Make girls want to be your friend outside of recruitment!