quit

I think it’s inportant to be honest with yourself. You don’t want to spend years and money on something you do not enjoy. If you decide to drop before initiation then you would be able to join another sorority come fall recruitment (in any sorority participates, no all sororities do). But if you go through initiation and then decide to drop, you just have to wait a year, so you could try again next January. I think you should talk to the president of your current sorority. It’s always hard to jump into a group and few right at home, I think people hype up the whole warm and fuzzy feeling, it doesn’t always happen right away for every girl. Know that feeling connected may take time and work, you could be going through growing pains and those will pass with time. Just some things to think about!

let me guess... you joined pi phi?

If you are initiated into an NPC sorority, you will not be able to be initiated into another NPC sorority. Because you accepted a bid, you will not be eligible to go through recruitment until primary recruitment next year! If you really are not happy, do not go through with initiation.

If you decide that the sorority you pledged is not for you after you’ve given it an honest chance, you can depledge. You can then go through the rush process all over again next year. Once you are initiated, and choose to drop, you will never be able to pledge another sorority.