i hate my life
by: hatelifeI tried really hard to join a fraternity this semester, but got cut by every house, just like I did last semester. Nobody gave me a bid. I am stuck alone, every weekend. I have no friends. It's just like high school all over again. I'm so lonely and sad because no one likes me or wants to hang out with me. I couldn't even get a bid in any of the lower-tier houses. I see other people getting ready to pledge or go out on formals, and I have to hold myself back from crying, because I couldn't get into any house. I must be the biggest loser in the world. I hate myself. I hate the way I look. I am such a loser. I honestly am so depressed right now. What's the point of living life, if everything always has to suck this much? I just want to die. I hate my life. I should just kill myself.
#1 by: hatelife
It's not even the fact that I can't join a fraternity. It's just that I have no friends. No one likes me. Not even the LOWEST houses would give me a bid. People that I know walk past me without even nodding or saying anything. People pretend like I don't exist. I have no one to hang out with. I just know that one day I will be 30 and lonely with no friends. I have the most boring personality. When I walk through the door, it's like a ghost. People don't even seem to notice me. But when others walk through the door, everyone is so excited to see them and asks about their day. I am the person everyone tries to avoid. People hate me. And I hate myself. There's nothing about myself that I actually like.
Comment#2 by: really
There are two reasons for this:
1) It sounds like you rushed too many houses. It's better to rush 2 or 3 and go to a lot of events than to rush half of them and go to . If you only showed up to like 1 or 2 events per house, you're not gonna get a bid.
2) I have a hard time believing you rushed EVERY house. If you did, see my point above. Otherwise keep looking. Each house has a different personality and you might have missed the perfect one for you.
#3 by: hatelife
I exaggerated. I didn't rush every house. First semester, I did Phi Psi & got rejected on Tuesday. I rushed Lambda, and got rejected. Then this semester, I got rejected by Sigma Chi. I tried TKE on Thursday, but was pulled aside five minutes into it and told "I wasn't a right fit." I tried Lambda, but was rejected within 20 minutes. I even tried FIJI on Thursday, and they didn't want me.
by: ummmmJan 31, 2014 11:16:03 PM
Seriously. You couldn't pay me enough to date a guy from any of those houses you listed. A lot of girls like guys in the quirkier houses. Really. I know for a fact that a lot of the "lower tier" fraternities get girls. They just don't pump their chests and act like douches. Try some of the other houses. Don't tell them that you didn't get into the douchey houses. Just act confident. You might be surprised to find real brotherhood, and you might meet some cool girls in the next couple of years. If that doesn't work out, it is all okay. Being in a fraternity isn't everything.
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by: wowJan 31, 2014 11:28:40 PM
also Lambda is a club not a fraternity FYI. I didn't get a bid there either when i rushed but i couldn't be happier with where I ended up
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#5 by: @hatelife
You got a lot of good advice, which is amazing for this site. It is very refreshing, for this site, that people tried to help you and give you excellent advice. I hope you take it. Good luck! And hell no, you're not a loser-- you got into USC! Do you know how many people would be ecstatic about that alone?!?
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by: perhapsJan 31, 2014 11:10:46 PM
perhaps you should join a group for people with Aspergers (not saying you have it), but those groups often help people learn social skills. My brother had a difficult time socializing. He recently graduated with a business degree in Cal State Fullerton. He is now living in the Silicon Valley, and went to a social skills group for people with Aspergers (at Kaiser). He learned so much. He now has a good job, and is even just got a girlfriend. His college years were very lonely. I'm glad he stuck it out. There really is hope. Please hang in there.
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