what does it take to be a theta at usc

Oh my and you say I have problems...

No, I dont. You are the problem, I'm just calling it as I see it.

Actually, come to think of it, I do have a problem with members of the Greek community being emotionally and psychologically abusive. You should be ashamed of yourself, and the image you are portraying of sorority girls to pnms and anyone else who visit this website. We sure are ashamed of you and your choices. It's an embarrassment to USC's reputation, and the reputation of greek life as a whole.

It appears I struck a nerve with you and your life choices. What lesser house do you regret?

What bugs me the most is that you apparently have no problem luring freshman girls to follow you into this state of unhappiness and regret.

Please don't try and say you are top tier as clearly you aren't.

Best!

Wow, you really don't know when to stop do you. Having a problem with a women in another house being abusive towards pnms does not mean I'm unhappy in my own house, nor does calling someone out for being manipulative and abusive. You know that, and I know that. You're just hoping that whatever PNMs read this don't know that. In fact, the reason why Im calling you out is out of respect for my own house. I don't want anyone thinking badly of my house because they read some manipulative comments on some website and decided that ALL sorority girls must be that horrible as well.


I feel bad for you. I really do. You really don't have the mental capacity to realize how your behavior damages all of greek life. Good luck in life. I truly hope pnms stay away from you in rush, for their own sake. You're a toxic person.

It's truly amazing how hypocritical you SJW are. You throw out all sorts of personal attacks then claim to hold some higher morality. It's just the opposite. Clearly you and I will never cross paths unless I need a fresh latte or my IPad fixed someday. You'll probably always hate me and I ignore you.

Best!

Wow, you sure turned my post around and into a negative. My daughter chose to either be a Theta or not to pledge and Im proud of her for her decision. She is already busy in lots of things at SC so she doesn't have time to be on a chat site. As an SC alum and in a sorority myself, I only wished for this great experience for her. It may not be in the cards. I just posted to better understand what goes on behind the scenes these days.

Were you a ChiO or an AOpi?

Then if you are proud of her choice, why keep hammering about why she didn't get in? I'm glad you wish for a good experience in a sorority for her, but there are many other sororities. She made the decision to go after one house and one house alone. Let her live with that. The consequence is that she will not have the "great experience".

What goes on behind the scenes is not mystical or rocket science. 20 year olds rate 18 year olds on a variety of things...looks certainly, let's be real. Involvement. Personality. But most importantly, does the PNM click with the chapter or not. That's all that happens. There is nothing more profound or conspiratorial going on.

So, what likely happened is that your daughter clicked with membership more than many girls to make it so far, but ultimately not enough to be one of the ones they invited to pref (and keep in mind, many girls that made it to pref ultimately didn't make it high enough up the bid list to get a bid). She sort of fit in, but not quite. That's all that happened.

Move on. I'm sure she has.

Never spoke to either of them. Done with this chat site. Was looking for insight and understanding not critique and ridicule.

I highly doubt a mother came onto this site for advice. It just takes 2 seconds to realize this site is not for genuine advice. Nice try.

My daughter is a very genuine girl and was all about where she felt the "connection" and really liked the girls. I feel like it's not worth discussing anymore. She will be a junior next year. I have heard loud and clear that it's impossible to get a bid as a junior. Any advice?