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just drop and go through rush next year.... don't waste your time if you are unsure

If you are a new member in aphi PLEASE talk to one of the older girls DO NOT use this website. There's a reason the older girls decided to stay, and they can share that with you. You are stereotyping the above sororities - aphi offers athletics, academics and philanthropy - it's your choice to make the most of your time there. Please get off this website and actually give a chance to the girls who offered you a bid.

If you base your judgements off of a dumb website, you don't deserve to be in Greek life regardless. Tiers don't exist. In a few years, nobody will care what chapter you were in. The experience is what you make it and they all have amazing things to offer. Grow up

can offer you all the things you listed, it's well rounded and doesnt limit it self to just one aspect. some of my closest friends are in aphi and love it there so you should give it a chance.

here's the thing, if you really know that you don't want them....MAKE THE DECISION THAT IS BEST FOR YOU....obvs on this site, everyone is going to be like give them a chance, etc because that's what they have to say but ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT"S BEST FOR YOU

know what you want and make decisions that work for you...don't waste your time and apologize for your choices

If you weren't invited back to other sororities, and you got a bid from APhi (from the sounds of it, you were lucky to get a bid at all) then that should tell you something. Those girls saw something in you, and they offer the same leadership, social, philanthropic, and academic opportunities as any other sorority. It's incredibly immature and shallow to base your decisions off an anonymous website that ANYONE in the Greek community will tell you is a complete joke. If you rush again and try to get a bid from somewhere else, you'll most likely get cut again, because those sororities just didn't see you fitting in to their chapter.

Drop them and rush next year