chose the wrong one?

hey, that's an honest experience. I was pledge educator of my chapter and you get tons of new girls who share similiar feelings. I always told them that was the same thing I went through but I waited one year to really see if I liked it. And I didn't really connect with ppl in my pledge class but I met my bff the second year and everything changed. I also got littles who are my bff's as well. I think it takes time and if after a year, it still is going horrible, you can just drop.

I agree, that new girls often feel this way, and you should give it some time. You also have to remember that just because you are in a certain sorority, doesn't mean you cannot make friends outside of that sisterhood. So while I think you should still give it a chance, don't feel like you should limit yourself! First year is a great time to meet tons of new people in other circles as well.

This is why you shouldn't rush a sorority or fraternity for that matter based on what you see off this website. Rush ALL sororities and fraternities or else you will wind up in the wrong place. Never pick based off of what you see on this site.