The secret about sorority recruitment

I went through recruitment last year and didn’t know this huge secret: the top sororities know who they’re giving bids to before recruitment even starts…. Believe me, Adpi and Kappa host jumpstart pre-parties and only invite certain 1st years that they want to give bids to. They make their bid list before recruitment even starts, and the rest of us who weren’t at these pre parties don’t even get a shot :( I loved Adpi during recruitment but because I wasn’t at a pre party I didn’t get invited back… I just wished I knew this before rushing