big/little help

by: upset October 28, 2020 11:49:24 PM

so i got my big the other day, and she was a girl who i've never even met. we have nothing in common, and frankly she seems really weird. i don't think we're going to have a very good relationship, because during times when we have to be together, she doesn't even talk to me very much and is really socially awkward. she refuses to go to the frats and isn't putting an effort into getting to know me. is this going to negatively affect my experience in my sorority? is the big/little thing like a huge deal, or is it only a big deal if you make it a big deal?

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#1by: Hi October 29, 2020 12:23:27 AM

honestly its not a big deal unless it was super important to you. me and my big didn't have that much in common but liked each other. we would do the occasional coffee date but not much more. it just depends on what you want your experience to be.

By: HiOctober 29, 2020 12:23:27 AM