recruitment

Savage but lowkey true

Just curious about why you said this and where it’s coming from?

I cross rushed Adpi and I am so happy that I didn’t end up going adpi. During recruitment the girls are really sweet and portray this perfect image of their chapter and they are so good at it. They made me feel so wanted and it felt so good to have beautiful popular girls want me like that. But they would say mean things about other sororities and would gossip a little bit about “omg this other sorority did this last year, just so not classy” and things like that. That’s why I ended up not choosing adpi. A sorority should be secure enough about their own chapter and sisterhood and not have the need to put down another sorority to win over girls. I ended up joining a sorority that isn’t a “top tier” sorority and isn’t as popular but honestly whatever because we have amazing sisterhood. Adpi doesn’t. Some of my friends went adpi and once you’re in, they aren’t what they seem. Don’t get me wrong they have some amazing girls and some amazing groups. But they also have a lot of really cliquey groups who just talk badly about each other and other girls in their chapter. You’re joining a group of 100 girls and not everyone is going to be best friends, but some of their girls literally hate each other and just yeah a lot of shady stuff. So you could join adpi and end up in an amazing group or you could join adpi and end up so disappointed with what you thought you were joining. So just tread carefully with adpi and be sure that you would be joining them because you can actually believe what they are telling you.

I’ve heard similar things, adpi constantly tries to tear other sororities down, doesn’t make them look any better

This could not be more true. After the later rounds of recruitment i was pretty much set on ADPI...until the girl I was paired with blantantly said “whatever you do, just don’t go (another sorority)”. Firstly, I can make that decision on my own. And most importantly, it made it seem like they were more concerned that the OTHER sorority didn’t do well during recruitment than actually wanting me in ADPI...how about just focusing on making PNMS know they are genuinely wanted and liked rather than using them as a part of your plan to sabotage other chapters.

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