facebook

wanting to drop

by: Umm

I joined a supposedly "top tier" chapter and I've already had a crazy amount of meetings, girls have gotten really mad when I haven't been able to make it to everything (even though I had legit reasons like having a volunteer shift) and been so rude, and a couple of the girls in my pledge class are low key crazy. I feel really unhappy with my choice and don't know what to do.

They were wayyy different in recruitment than they are in reality. I thought they were nice, I wasn't making a decision based on tiers or anything but I'm already finding it cliquey and everyone is so full of themselves.

Posted By: Umm
Post Reply Report
Page 1 of 1
#1  by: !!   
#1    

dont go through with initiation. It's not worth it. Wait until fall recruitment 2018 and try again. Once you get initiated you cant join another chapter.

By: !!
Report
#2  by: Lol   
#2    

Sounds like ADPi to me

By: Lol
Report
by: YupOct 11, 2017 9:58:41 PM

100% this is ADPi they've already had multiple girls drop

By: Yup
Report
by: LolOct 12, 2017 1:03:47 PM

Literally heard two ADPi's talking about this yesterday

By: Lol
Report
#3  by: hunny   
#3    

every new member has two meetings per week, regardless of which sorority you join. So hate to break it to you, but you're going to get the same thing no matter where you end up

By: hunny
Report
by: NopeOct 4, 2017 3:23:10 AM

This is false. Some chapters have more than two meetings, and definitely not every chapter has actives being mean to new members when they can't make it to everything for legitimate reasons.

Don't know what chapter OP is in but this sounds remarkably similar to girls' experiences I know in ADPi

By: Nope
Report
by: ??Oct 4, 2017 1:11:21 PM

which chapters have more than two meetings per week?

By: ??
Report
#4  by: Gg   
#4    

I want to drop too. I made my decision based on tiers here. Big mistake:/

By: Gg
Report
by: DUDEOct 4, 2017 7:12:39 PM

Literally HUGE mistake. Trust. The. System. These stupid "rankings" are written by anonymous people on the internet. When my sorority chooses girls, we vote based on SO much more than looks. So it makes NO sense to have rankings especially when they're 90% based on which sorority is the hottest.

By: DUDE
Report
by: lmaoOct 4, 2017 8:11:12 PM

no offence but you're an idiot

By: lmao
Report
by: lawenOct 14, 2017 11:55:13 PM

hate this site

By: lawen
Report
#5  by: look in the mirror   
#5    

Maybe you should work on your communication skills and talk to members in your chapter instead of complaining on an anonymous website :)
It's also hypocritical to call someone rude when you're calling other people (whom you've just met and talked to probably twice) crazy.

By: look in the mirror
Report
by: NoOct 10, 2017 9:34:22 PM

I say that because they've had multiple ambulances called to the frats because they drank too much, and because they've talked openly about doing cocaine. I know enough to know those aren't the people I want to be around, that's not being "rude"

By: No
Report
by: giveawayOct 11, 2017 11:11:57 PM

kappa ^

By: giveaway
Report
#6  by: Yolo   
#6    

It's an expensive decision and if you're not feeling it now and go through with it and you're not feeling it later you'll regret not dropping. You can always go through rush again next year if you drop before initiation

By: Yolo
Report

Post Reply

Before you type:  Remember, do not post names, initials, or any derogatory content.

Nickname:
Message:

POPULAR ON GREEKRANK

Request

Didn't find your school?Request for your school to be featured on GreekRank.