@older sorority girls

Im also interested in hearing responses for this. Im going into my 2nd year and am wanting to rush but i don't want to be bored of it my last few years SOS

I'm going into my last year in my sorority and I think it can go one of two ways. Either you totally stop caring about it as you get older and just go to events out of a sense of obligation - and this can be for a lot of reasons, for example some girls have really heavy course loads in their last years, some are trying to go to law/med school and really have to focus on that.

I will say that going on co-op or exchange can really make girls lose touch with their chapter, especially if they're gone for a full year because by the time you come back you don't even know any of the new members.

The other way it can go is that it just becomes more meaningful to you as time passes - the traditions and rituals and ceremonies that you thought were silly as a new member become really special to you. I think the more time you put into your sorority, the more you will get out of it and the bigger a part of your life it will be in upper years and after graduation.

if you go on exchange for a year, do you still have to pay the sorority membership fees for that year?

get involved. it's as simple as that. don't join just for the parties

Nothing changes unless you change, a lot of senior members get over it just because you're maturing, the more you get involved the less likely that will happen

there are girls who just graduated from my sorority, but they've always been very involved in the chapter and with younger members. It really depends on the person I've found that members who hold officer positions tend to enjoy their time until the very end

stay involved, get an officer position

and spend time with your littles!!