dropping

Hey girl! I think it really depends on your sorority! To be honest i think everyone considers dropping at one point or another but if you really don't feel like you want to keep paying for it cause your not getting what you first hope to get out of it then dropping might be a good choice.

As for being worried about your sisters reaction I think if you have a bond with them they would be upset but at the same time if they really care about you they would understand and would not let the fact that your not in their sorority anymore be the factor to if they want to stay friends with you or not.

I think girls who drop out of their sorority (in my opinion i didn't drop mine but i'm assuming) depends on the girls depends were friends with, again, if they are your true friends they would stay friends with you but at the same time sometimes its harder to keep in contact because you won't get to see each other as much as you would have if you were in the sorority (cause of greek events etc.)

You just said you don't like your sorority, so why exactly will you care what they think...? I doubt that either party will make an effort to see one another when you do drop.

if it's true friendship they'll still be ur friends

For the girls that have dropped from my sorority at least, they stay friends with the girls they were close with. Yes, it's a little awkward that you dropped and you won't be able to come to events like formal, but I know for myself and my friends someone dropping and not being in your sorority any more would never mean that we wouldn't talk to them!

There are so many reasons that people drop - finances, family issues, or being in a difficult school program and not being able to be as involved. You have to do what's right for you and even though your sisters will miss you, it doesn't mean they'll stop being your friends if they're good people!

So I rushed for sororities this year but did NOT get the one I wanted at all. I feel disconnect with the girls I talked to during recruitment. I don’t want to spend all this time with people I don't feel belonging with. If I drop out of sororities am I able to rush again in Spring/ Formal Recruitment next year?