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So I know the process is secret but I'm feeling really confused about why my top chapters dropped me after tours. I seriously thought I'd found home when I walked in. Does it ever happen where you have a real connection with the girls but you still don't make the list?

Posted By: PNM
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i feel ya PNM. I swear Im the only one of my group who didn't get invited back to kappa and they were my favourite omg wheyey

By: squirrelgirl
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lol

By: squirrelgirl
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sometimes it happens but every sorority has its own method for deciding to invite back after tours so don't take it personally! <3

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Gphi and kappa pretty much only give bids to Indians so if it was one of those two and you're white don't take it to heart

By: Well
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it's nothing personal but they are looking and ranking you based on overall factors like academics, activities, leadership, personality, image (meaning is she put together, did she make an effort), charisma, etc. Are your grades top level? Are you really involved and ambitious? Are you out going and did you carry the conversation and ask questions? Did you show you had some personality? Even if you did all of these things, there are only a certain amount they can invite back and it just might be that others performed better.

By: aaaaa
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there was two chapters i felt SO at home in but i only got asked back to one for pref. at the time i was so set on the one that dropped me i didnt realize that the two i got in to i was bst suited to, and not suited to the other chapter at all. give the ones you get back into a chance! you never know, the girls in the chapter are the best at seeing who is the best fit

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I feel like it's not even all about 'performance' and who 'performed' best. You could have done everything perfectly, but if you feel like you have to perform, and not be yourself, that's probably not the sorority for you.

By: anonymous
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Bump

By: Wow
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The system is messed up too. Sometimes even if a chapter wants u and puts u on their list and you put them first but another chapter put you higher up on their list the other chapter will still get you.

By: Uhg
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If you rank a chapter as your first and they rank you back, then you will get them. If you didn't get your top choice that means they didn't want you period

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