regret joining my house
by: Sad sisterI regret joining my house. I wish i would have put my number 2 as my number 1. Ive been crying almost nonstop since bid day. I dont even want to wear my bid day shirt. As a sophomore I can't really rush again and join the house I want. Advice?
Comment#2 by: Grow Up
Seriously, just stop. You do realize if you put your #2 as #1 it might not have made a difference. Who knows if your #2 choice even had you on their list. You could have easily been at the bottom of their list....which might have left you being cross-cut if you were towards the the bottom of your #1. You have no idea what your rank was on either list and you'll never know. Just be glad you are in house, many women didn't make it.
Sorry, but I just have a hard time feeling sorry for you. If you are so unhappy that you are posting on social media then drop. You haven't even really met the women that are your pledge sisters, but they deserve better.
#3 by: God
God here,
Pardon me Miss, but I feel like you're missing the point. You don't join the house because you want the house. You join the house because you vibe well with the sisters and it's a good fit for you. Does it suck when you don't get your favorite pick? Sure it does. But I know a large majority of girls who didn't get bids AT ALL who are quite a bit more upset than you are. Give your house a chance. For all you know, you've found a great home for yourself for the next couple of years. Keep a stiff upper lip.
God out.
#4 by: Really?
If you truly feel this way....then drop now. If you havent gone through your pledging ceremony you may be eligible for spring rush, but very limited choices. Bottom line - either jump ship ASAP or learn to love your house and contribute to it. Nothing worse than a sophomore pledge who adds nothing to the sisterhood.
by: wellSep 8, 2015 4:28:12 PM
i signed a big card last spring, dropped and rushed this fall. npc said it was fine.
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by: @wellSep 9, 2015 9:50:50 AM
Signing a bid card at formal recruitment is binding for a year until the next formal recruitment rolls around. To my knowledge signing a bid at informal is only binding until the next formal rolls around.
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by: Be smartSep 8, 2015 5:01:18 PM
by: ^^Sep 9, 2015 8:52:14 AM
Why do you think your second choice would've given you a bid had you put them first?
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by: NopeSep 8, 2015 3:15:52 PM
Once you sign a bid card, you can't pledge another NPC sorority for a year.
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