saturday

I would like to know this as well. I was invited to 10/13 on Saturday. How many did most PNMs go to on Sunday? And what should I expect for next Saturday? I hate that I'm so nervous about it, because it's going to be a LONG week.

All houses have made GPA cuts and cuts for girls who they do not think are a good fit. So if your grades are good and you think you connected, you should be fine for Saturday. The system works so even if a house cuts you that you liked, another house might be better for you than you know.

If you had a full schedule first invitational then your chances for a full schedule second invitational are pretty good. Even if you had 11 or 12 you could still get a full schedule. But the cuts are pretty drastic; however just keep trying and it might hopefully work out. No need to get all stressed out about it now.

I agree - It's going to be a long week. I went to 11 on Sunday and I really liked 6 of them, and was ok with 3. I have no idea who will ask me back so I'm trying to keep an open mind, but there's too much time between the 2nd and 3rd parties!

Just keep your mental notes from the last round so when you see where you are invited back you are prepared. Don't dwell the house that may have dropped you. Focus on houses that want you. Best case scenario is to go to final pref with three houses you would be pleased to join.

I'm a sophomore and for the first invitational I was only invited back to 8. I'm super stressed out and don't even know if I will have any invites on Saturday at all.. wondering if i should just drop and spare myself the embarrassment of not having any house invite me back :(

Don't let your inner doubt get to you. It's YOUR rush, nobody else's. I think if you have no invites (I don't really think that will happen) your Gamma Chi may give you a heads up that morning before meeting. It only takes one house that you like. As long as you stay open minded and want to be greek, you will most likely find a place where you will be happy. Those 8 may really like you.

Even if you don't get a full list remember you only need to get into 1 house, the right house!

I got only 4 houses for today, 2 of which I am not interested at all and 2 which I'm like ehh? I don't know if its even worth it for me to go tomorrow to visit 1-2 houses that I don't even like. I am super embarrassed about not getting enough houses back because it just makes me realize that I don't fit in anywhere, even though the reason I was rushing was to find a place where I fit in.

If you want to be Greek you will go. If you dont feel its worh "your time" to enjoy an afternoon of parties that members have poured their energy into then you will stay home. If its fear that wants to keep you in your dorm, then I challenge you to buck up, dress up and see what may be potentially the best decision you have ever made.