Incoming freshman be careful of Aphi
by: aphiWant to give a warning to incoming freshman because I think they should know what they’re getting into. I just graduated so I finally think it’s cool to come out and say this but me and all my friends rushed Aphi our freshman year and just wanted to warn incoming freshman that this house is not what you think it is. All of us ended up dropping our third year because none of us actually liked being in the house once we got to know the people and the way the house is run. It’s a bunch of girls that care a lot about social media and how they appear, hence why they have so many followers and are ruling this site as the “top house”, but not a lot of actual sisterhood or bonding actually goes on once you’re in the house. Granted yes I did meet good friends through aphi but we all bonded because of how much we hated aphi. They are also scary good at rush and coming from someone who has been on both sides, they know what they are doing. But just be careful because I’m super bummed I didn’t join any of the other 4 tops, or frankly any other Greek house, because all of our friends across Greek life really enjoy it and stayed until their senior year and we got kinda screwed over by joining Aphi. Also not sure if this is transparent going into it but our dues were more expensive than any other house in the acres. Just thought I should come out and say this because I remember looking at greekrank before I rushed and having aphi being listed as “top” everywhere as a factor in my mind, but trust me that any other house you will likely be better off unless you’re an influencer or someone that doesn’t rlly care about making friends or the sisterhood at all. Just thought I would share.
#1by: Honest opinion
I’m not sure if the OP is being completely honest, but there is some truth. Senior here. I dropped Aphi at the end of rush to pick another solid house. I just felt more connected to the other house. I had no idea (at the time) that I was dropping the perceived Top house. Had a friend pick Aphi and she was always jealous of my experience. Aphi clearly has good looking girls that get the invites. Just not my vibe. I am very thankful that I was clueless of their reputation. Go with your gut!
Comment#3by: geed
reading this truly baffled me. at EVERY single house there are going to be a variety of girls that you like/don’t like. for you to immediately say these things about aphi just shows you were never in aphi. i know TONS of aphis and the majority of them are nothing like the kind of girls that you are talking about. they keep getting a bad wrap based on these trolls on this site but for why?? jealousy?? not every house is perfect but i can assure you that aphi is full of genuine girls with actual personalities. not to mention they have a strong sisterhood so i’m sorry you had that “experience”. it’s an amazing house full of genuine, smart, beautiful & confident women so do NOT believe this jealous, attention-seeking post.
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#6by: aphi lady
A girl in my PC came to lunch on the first day of classes. She recognized a group of girls from our PC sitting at a table and decided to sit with them because she's trying to make new friends and she thought she could assume that girls in her own sorority will be nice to her. When she sat down these girls glared at her, got up, and moved tables. So effing rude.
OP is correct about them being so fake. They only rush off looks and have the worst sisterhood on campus. Half the girls in the sorority fake their entire lives for social media. If you see them in person they look miserable and they hate on girls in houses that aren't "top" enough for them (cough cough pi phi).
Don't even get me started about all the Panhellenic rules they break during rush. Before rush even starts they've already picked out their new PC.
Girls need to stop rushing Alpha Phi. They don't want you and they will make that clear to you after bid day. They just want you to pay your dues so they can use your looks for their Instagram for the following year's rush. Let them take whatever high school bullies they can get. It's what they want it's what they should get
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by: caution
Oh yeah? Who fakes their entire lives for social media? How can they pick out their new PC before even meeting any PNM's? Enlighten us please
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by: pledge master
That is SO NOT TRUE!!! AP has the best sisterhood ever and I would NEVER let someone do such a thing in my PC!! That is absolutely OUTRAGEOUS!!! Of course a bitter bottom house would write a post like this. Sorry we are top and get the boys who don't want you....
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by: precious
this comment section is ridiculous. every sorority looks up a girl's social media before rushing them because you never want to give a bid to someone who may have a problematic online presence. secondly, i dont think guys really want girls from aphi for anything more than a quick hookup, so if you're happy that men only want you between the hours of 1am and 3am on a saturday night, then maybe rush aphi.
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Delta Gamma is an amazing, sweet and unique house which is nothing like all the ridiculous comments on here. Don’t drag us top queens into this mess!
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#7by: Okay
It’s 10 PM on a Friday night and you’re writing paragraphs about Alpha Phi. Your post and this entire thread written from old, bitter ladies say way more than any Alpha Phi you write about 😭 What a LOSER! Aphi doesn’t even give AF about this site and once again will get their amazing, beautiful ladies that your favorite frat boys will be taking to all the best date parties and NOLA 😍 Enjoy writing your paragraphs though!
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by: Truth
I agree. Rushed and got a bid from aphi but dropped because the girls there were super fake and never really welcomed me into the house. Sure they get invites, but it’s just not worth it. If you’re looking for more than just a reputation of being in a “top” house (even though they definitely don’t deserve that title, don’t rush aphi.
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