my experience in kappa

I normally would never come on this website because I hate the concept of it but if any PNM’s are lurking I thought I’d share my experience to warn freshman. I was in Kappa for two years. I prefed Kappa and Tri delt and I was SO excited when I got kappa on bid day. I quickly realized the sorority was completely different than the vibe I got during recruitment. They only let their most beautiful people talk during recruitment and hide everyone else. Everything was about photoshoots, looking pretty 24/7 (and getting judged if I didn’t) and desperately trying to be the best sorority on campus (to a pathetic extent). Girls drop left and right and it got to a point where I didn’t even know half my pledge class because they were getting replaced with COB’s.

Kappa in general tries to knock down other sororities, when in general, the girls think about the "what if I joined this house" or "what if I joined that house".

I stuck it out for two years because I liked the idea of being in a sorority and I was hoping it would get better (it never did). My friends and I all decided to drop this year because we had enough. Kappa is a good chapter if you’re interested in things like being Instagram famous and judging other people for their appearances. I’m not saying no one should join kappa or that everyone in the chapter hates it, but I wanted to warn people that will get fooled by their recruitment like I did when I could’ve potentially found a house I ended up enjoying. That’s all from me.