unsure of new house

It means they wanted you. They know each other more than you know them. They know who is a fit

Don't even compare the house that gave you a bid with the house you would "scream with happiness" over cuz that house wasn't going to give you a bid -even if you rushed as a freshman. The girls in the houses know who fits in well with their sisters. Particularly as a sophomore, if you can't be grateful for the house that wants you then you should drop immediately and give someone else a chance.

Your feelings are not abnormal. You didn't get into your first choices and you're disappointed. That's normal. It doesn't mean you won't like your house. Give it some time and see if you're feelings change. My guess is they will. I'm in a house that was my 8th choice on day 1. I was super disappointed to be dropped my faves. But now a year later - I wouldn't trade my house in for any other. I love my sisters and my sorority.

Best of luck.

Bid day can always be awkward even if you love the house. You are getting shoved into a group of over 100 girls that you might only know a handful of. Give it time and try to get to know the girls and maybe the older pledge class, which would be your age. Like already said, you have to commit to the house. If you aren't going to try to know anyone it won't get better but if you try you might find girls that you really like. Don't judge the house by the little bit of time you have spent with them.