dear pnms

Don't suicide rush a house if they aren't receptive to you. Actives know a lot better than PNMs where people will fit in. If you're a decently normal person, youre going to find that you can get in most parties, most of the time. Also, your bgr/star/home friends are still going to be your friends if youre in different houses. It's a Greek community. Don't freak out.