just saying
by: PNMIt's hypocritical AF when people bash others for not wanting to be in a "bottom tier" house, when they themselves are in a mid/top tier. There's a reason you yourself cut the "bottom" houses and you're lying to yourself if you don't admit it. You're no better than the people you chastise
#1by: Oh my
You are assuming that some houses do not make cuts. They all make cuts and it is a matching process. Different groups are looking for different qualities in their members. Different rushees also value different qualities. So what is it that you really want? To be hot? cool? Chill? Nice? Accepted? Social status? Or perhaps a strong sisterhood ? Or maybe you would rather forget it all because the system
Is so harsh? Your value as a person does not depend upon what sorority you are in. College is about expanding your mindset and meeting new people. But, be aware
you can get cut from any sorority . It's not all about you. Even Alpha Phi will make cuts. Good luck as you consider what is important to you .
#2by: Lol
#3by: New perspective
I'm a senior in a middle tier house that I love. When I was a freshman, I preffed a top tier, a middle tier, and a bottom tier. I was soooooo worried over what I heard during tent talk that week, that I only listed the top tier and the middle tier on my pref card. I was LUCKY to get my 2nd choice. I could have missed out on getting a bid altogether.
Now that I'm a senior, I've made friends in all the houses. I'm ashamed that I let the rumors cloud my judgment. I should have put the bottom tier house on my pref card. I would have been just as happy there as with the top tier or my current middle tier house. Also, I would have been GUARANTEED A BID if I had maxed out my pref card.
All 10 houses are amazing. Tiers only exist during rush and the drags you mix with. Little known secret: all frat boys are the same. Plus, frat guys will still date you no matter what house you're in if they think you're cool and hot. And, all of our sororities are hotter than all of the Dook sororities, so the Dook frats love to mix with Carolina frats.
Good luck tonight!!!
#4by: Outsider
One other thing to remember, middle tiers were probably once lower tiers. They moved up because wonderful girls were looking for sisterhood over status. The ironic result is that eventually the status improved. It sounds like there are several PNM's who are in the same situation. If you all join a sorority together, you will have a blast, you will make new friends, and your presence might just be enough to improve the status over the next 4 years.
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by: New perspective
FRATS you mix with!!!! OMG hilarious autocorrect!