negative rankings

A friend told me about this site and I was shocked....my brother was a DU (which was considered lower tier then too) and graduated in 1992. He never minded how his house appeared to others - he had a great college experience and made friendships that he still has. He and his roommate in the house, plus two other guys in the Frat, went to medical school, and my brother is a Cardiothoracic surgeon in D.C. His roommate is an orthopedic surgeon in Raleigh, and the other two guys are doing just as well. So you can see that these rankings don't really mean anything or predict future success. A guy I know that was a Phi Gam during that time is now a divorced used car salesman. Find a house that you connect with and pledge there. Other people's opinions of what you do are irrelevant.