I don’t know what to do about rush

So I got a bid to a couple houses I liked SAE, DU, k sig and a couple others that are close to Ike that let u in, and I’m sorta torn because I was leaning SAE and I really like the location but I recently talked with some of the guys at SAE and they seem cool but I really don’t know if I’m ready to commit to them as my brothers, I also heard their pledging was lighter and like had alot of breaks so idk if I’ll be as close with any of the brothers. I heard they block with biddies doe Any input would be appreciated?