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Thinking of dropping...

by: Idk

I'm in an upper mid/lower top sorority and don't really know if it's the place for me... there's lots of drama and it feels like such a popularity contest (within the sorority and with other sororities). Is it worth it to stay? (I'm a freshman btw) Does that get better or should i just drop now

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#1  by: lol   
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which sorority is it? it depends

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#2  by: N   
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Greek life definitely feels like high school the first two or so years and then you’ll see that ppl will start to care so much less. Drop if u think it’s unbearable but it was at least worth it for me cause of all the parties, meeting new ppl etc.

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#3  by: N   
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Greek life definitely feels like high school the first two or so years and then you’ll see that ppl will start to care so much less. Drop if u think it’s unbearable but it was at least worth it for me cause of all the parties, meeting new ppl etc.

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#4  by: True   
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Sad to say but yes it is still like high school. Some people can’t leave popularity behind and the need to feel important. There is a definite hierarchy within your pledge class and that usually remains. Very cliquey and mean.

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#5  by: S   
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A lot of girls regret joining a top tier srat after they realize they are not top in the organization.

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#6  by: advice   
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The person above gave good advice to stick it out because no one cares after sophomore year and you will have made some friends.

However, this is the reason a lot of people actively choose to join more low-key frats and srats. If you are a girl, you will be invited to parties if you are cute and fun, no matter what house you are in. If you are a guy, if you have a personality you will have enough dates. And long-lasting friendships to boot.

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#7  by: truth   
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You'll find problematic girls in every sorority and tbh in every dorm, apt, club, etc. You need to find your people and try to ignore the rest.

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#8  by: drop it like it’s hot   
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drop it! there are plenty of clubs and organizations that provide community and a sense of purpose. I recommend trying a community service org and making friends with other freshman so that you can end the school year feeling like you’ve found some good friends

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