advice for pnms

hi y'all! I know rush keeps getting closer and closer. I just wanted to share a bit of pretty solid advice i was told while rushing.
Go where you feel comfortable. Do not pay attention to the ranks, the stigmas, the status of chapters even though they may seem important. I have too many friends that are miserable in their chapters or have disaffiliated bc they didn't truly belong. If you're pretty (sorry to be shallow) you are going to totally be sought after by top tiers. Do not fall in love with them just bc they're pretty, and you're pretty so you feel as though thats where you best fit in. I'm not saying to give lower tiers a shot. Just don't try hard to feel like you fit in, fall in love with the girls and take it from there. Take it from someone who took her gut instinct over what she thought she should do to be part of a certain crowd at towson. Rush is tough stuff i would never choose to go through it again, but you also come out happy if you honestly follow what i am saying. Be yourself, be comfortable, say whatever is on your mind, most of the time the girls on the other side are just as nervous as you are. Do not belittle girls in chapters you feel you shouldn't give a shot. Have fun. Most of all GL.