to all pnms

You may or may not already have a specific sorority you're interested in joining, but if you do, DO NOT BE RUDE TO GIRLS IN ORGS YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN. THIS WILL NOT INCREASE YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING INTO THE ORG YOU WANT. The girls you talk to during rounds may not be your future sisters, but they will be your panhell sisters. You will see them at events, in classes, and in passing on campus.The way you act during all rounds will reflect on your future organization.

I once spoke to a girl during rounds who was a nervous mess because of the way PNMs had been speaking to her and it broke my heart. The sorority you join is a part of a bigger community consisting of every single one of the girls you will speak to during rounds. Do not limit yourself by burning bridges before you get to them. Recruitment can be stressful, but be kind.

As a side note, take the reviews/rankings on this site with a grain of salt. The people who use this site most are PNMs and a few very bitter people. Good luck during recruitment! I encourage you to keep and open mind & I wish you luck finding your home :)