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whats the most important aspect in a pnm?

by: pnm

Looks, wealth, personality, letters of rec?

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#1  by: Yes   
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LOOKS. I'm gonna give it to you straight. The first two rounds are solely about looks. So look your best those days you have to. I wish someone told me that rushing

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by: Courtney Jul 18, 2017 5:31:17 PM

Oh and grades!! Put grades right after connections. No sorority wants a girls that's going to bring down their overall GPA

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#2  by: Best I can put it    
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It all comes down to personality. They want someone who is going to fit in with them and is similar to them. Looks have a little to do with it but not much.

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#3  by: Depends   
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My sorority feels like PNM should have an outstanding quality. It could be looks, talent, style... but there is a grade threshold and a looks threshold you have to cross.
After that it is if you connect with someone

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by: Yes Jul 18, 2017 7:00:50 PM

This comment is the most accurate

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#4  by: Mr.nike   
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I get hit on by dimes but I don't dragon slayers to jump on grenades . More sorority girls should be more independent and go to joes coffee shop. #4real

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#5  by: Looks matter   
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Being completely honest with you, recruitment is extremely superficial. I love my sorority but rush week itself (in my opinion) is very materialistic. What people consider "top" houses are looking for girls who will solely bring publicity and popularity to their house, especially in the social media aspect (ex. facey girls who get lots of likes on their instagram pictures). Girls who are recruiting are looking at you and judging you based on how well they think you will fit in and "enhance" their sorority. The first two rounds especially are solely based on the girls' first impression of you; while yes, your personality can definitely help how well you connect, looks are really the determining factor. Go into recruitment with ABSOLUTELY no expectations and an open mind. If you go in set on a particular house, as I did, when or if you get dropped, you will be devestated and asking yourself where you went wrong, why am I not pretty enough, etc. Be yourself and work hard to hold a meaningful conversation, but keep in mind, looks really are everything during rush week.

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by: WaitJul 18, 2017 8:02:56 PM

This is actually so true and ur lying if u try to disagree

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by: ?Jul 18, 2017 8:05:28 PM

Then why are there so many not so cute girls in top tier?

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#6  by: ?????    
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People keep saying looks are everything with recruitment but I see so many mediocre looking girls on top tier sorority social media pages?

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#7  by: Wait what   
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Okay don't listen to all these comments saying looks is all we care about. I'm in one of the sororities that's considered a "pretty" sorority and I can tell you right now that we will cut a girl so fast if she's awkward or shy, no matter how pretty she is. Personality is just as important as looks when it comes to recruitment, don't listen to any girl that tells you differently

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by: Yep Jul 19, 2017 1:37:48 PM

This girl right here said it all. Obviously each sorority wants a pretty girl, but top sororities aren't going to give you a bid just because you are pretty, you need to be at least somewhat outgoing too.

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#8  by: ???   
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Do sororities look at your social media during recruitment?

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#9  by: F the haters    
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Bump

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