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y'all need to chill

by: Lord

Who cares if these fraternities were kicked off campus? Oh wait not me, and neither should y'all. You're still gonna hang out with your friends from each of those fraternities. It's literally just a label. Y'all are acting like this is the end of the world. Maybe y'all can take this and learn from this in the future. If you're gonna have a party, you need to plan for every single possible outcome. You need to hire security, and maybe just maybe your exec should be SOBER. And if you're gonna have a party it should probably be in a well lit area. You can't prevent under age drinking, but there are a ton of other precautions you can take. Blame adpi all you want, but I know not every single one of you make sure your friends make it home, in fact half of y'all drive each other home drunk all the time. So instead of this blame game, get over it and take it as a learning experience.

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#1  by: -^   
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It may be an unpopular opinion but it's true

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#2  by: Just stop    
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People care we aren't horrible people to care about an organization we put a lot into

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by: ^Jan 13, 2017 3:41:01 PM

If you care about your organization and put so much into it, maybe it would be a good idea to take this as a lesson and grow from it. This will allow you to put MORE into your organization, in fact you can cry about it or leave it better than you found it. Will it take time? Yes, but let's not pretend that an organization equates to a loss of life people. A girl lost her life at a party that four fraternities hosted, it's unfortunate that fraternities have to take the fall but life is unfair and you move on and learn from it. Her life means something to a lot of people, it shouldn't be overshadowed by the cries of people who lost their charter.

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by: @^Jan 13, 2017 3:44:35 PM

Thank you for this. It needed to be said and people need to quit only caring about themselves.

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#3  by: What is wrong with people   
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WHY are people blaming someone's death on ANYONE? Do you not realize how sick that is. You can't blame something as terrible as that on a specific person or organization??? And it honestly isn't anyone's fault? Not adpi's, not ka's, not delt's, not pike's, not ato's. Why are we still even talking about it?? Just stop.

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#4  by: Haha yeah okay    
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Y'all don't care now but wait til homecoming comes around and your only options as dates are the frats that are left.... Y'all can't all be kappa sig's date lol so have fun with that.

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by: So true Jan 13, 2017 6:26:50 PM

Hahah probably bad timing but this is so funny and so true hahah

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by: For real Jan 13, 2017 8:03:42 PM

Hahahah for real. You girls have fun at mandatory attendance Greek olypics being paired with Sig taus!!

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#5  by: Come on    
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I don't think the blame should be on adpi either, but I also don't think the blame should be on the fraternities. They put more time into planning for that party than you think. They did everything in their power to keep everyone safe. They even had cops on site during the party. Freak accidents happen sometimes, it's a part of life. But don't go around saying the frats didn't plan accordingly because they definitely did.

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by: Thank youJan 13, 2017 10:00:28 PM

Thank you.. Jesus actually 2 months of planning to be exact. Trust me we did everything we could. It's nobody's fault. The university just hates us and has to blame it on someone so they don't look bad, even though the bus company is technically liable and so is the bus driver. It was an accident for all we know even though iv heard more rumors than I can count.

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#6  by: Paige    
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Actually no YOU need to chill. There's nothing wrong with people being upset that their fraternity is being kicked off campus. I completely agree that adpi shouldn't have to take blame for anything. Whoever said adpi was at fault to begin with is a complete moron. But I still don't think the guys in these fraternities, or all of Greek life for that matter, are ridiculous for being upset over this. Just because people are upset about this doesn't mean they don't feel remorse towards the girl or her family. It's just a hard situation overall.

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#7  by: unpopular opinion   
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look i completely feel for the girls family and for her i went and showed my support and everything but why is it okay to blame the frats but then nobody is allowed to say anything about the sisterhood? and what about the guy who died the DAY after at a frat party does no one care about him?

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by: Oh my goodness Jan 14, 2017 2:54:53 PM

I am actually baffled that people think adpi should take blame for any of this.... Like I literally can't wrap my head around it, and I'm not even an adpi. For starters she wasn't even an adpi her last month or so on this earth, she dropped from what I hear. Also, you clearly have never been in a sorority because if you have you would know that it is near impossible to be super close friends with 150+ girls. I guarantee you more than half the girls in the sororitiy didn't even have her number saved in their phones. Another thing I might add, adpi had their biggest date party of the year the night of the party so the majority of the sororitiy didn't even attend it??? And one more thing, don't you dare sit here and pretend you are perfect and have called every single one of your friends to make sure they made it home safe every night you've ever been drinking. If you sit here and try to tell me that you are lying to me and you are lying to yourself.

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by: ?Jan 14, 2017 3:04:31 PM

Say anything about the sisterhood? Please explain to me why an entire sororitiy should be blamed for something like that? I would seriously like to know...... And that guy that got ran over at Sig chi wasn't even a Texas state student. Look, idk why the school kicked off your fraternities, I didn't think it was fair at all, but just because it happened doesn't mean you can go around pointing fingers and bringing up other bad topics to take the attention away from y'all.

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by: @oh my goodnessJan 14, 2017 3:56:14 PM

I never said that adpi should take blame i said that no one is even allowed to mention adpi in this situation without getting attacked. i dont think it is anyones fault. It was an absolutely tragic situation and my prayers go to her and her family/ friends. and as for the guy the next day.. so because he didnt attend texas state nothing should happen??? He died right in front of the frat house.. but it was never addressed.

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by: unpopular opinionJan 14, 2017 4:11:34 PM

Maybe i shouldve worded that better, i didnt mean we should blame adpi i was meaning it in a way as we dont blame adpi so why should we blame the frats..? other stuff happened that weekend at frat parties yet nothing happened to them??

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by: @unpopularopinionJan 14, 2017 4:27:21 PM

I don't even know why adpi would be brought up honestly, I don't know how they would have any control over anything that happened that night. I don't really know why the fraternities are in this much trouble either, they also didn't really have control over what happened. And that's a good question, I don't really know why sigma chi isn't in as much trouble as y'all.

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by: @unpopularopinionJan 14, 2017 4:29:01 PM

Yeah but I don't think anyone is really blaming the frats except the school, so maybe that's a good question to ask the school.

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