scared

Let's say I really like one house. I like the values the girls stand for and how they live out their lives. But I feel like many of girls I know in the house of do not know me. They probably know OF me, but not very well, if at all. I am trying to keep an open to all of the other houses, but I can not help but really like this one. But, I am scared during rush that I will really fall in love with them and I will not get a bid. I really am trying to keep an open mind. ( I also have an irrational ( or rational depending on how you look at it) fear of not getting a bid at all. Nobody likes rejection. any advice?