harsh reality of life

Your maturity is amazing!

"I transferred universities because I did not get my first choice in sororities" is going to go over so well in job interviews and grad school applications.

My guess is your grades are not that great, either.

Yep, nothing says "character" like running away like an immature spoiled brat.

Oh, and your hopes of being PKT at another school and transferring back to SMU? ZERO.

My younger sister is at USV.
I looked at their postings, and looks like your are trolling there. If you are thinking of USC, things are probably not going to work out.

First: Compare the admission standards v. SMU. Much harder, including as a transfer.
Recruitment: Upperclassmen don't do well at SC in recruitment. Plus, you probably have no Southern Cal connections.

My younger sister is at USC.
I looked at their postings, and looks like your are trolling there. If you are thinking of USC, things are probably not going to work out.

First: Compare the admission standards v. SMU. Much harder, including as a transfer.
Recruitment: Upperclassmen don't do well at SC in recruitment. Plus, you probably have no Southern Cal connections.

USC has a 16% acceptance rate. What makes you so sure you'll get in, much less get a bid to a house there?

The sororities invite women to join, they don't put out a sign up sheet. They do the choosing. So do cheer, pom squad, sports teams, employers, graduate schools, private clubs, and lots of other groups. You don't just get to say "I want that one" and get your pick. If you are too dumb and/or entitled to understand that concept then you're failing at life.

Yes, you can be frustrated but don’t insult the sororities you didn’t want. It makes you look like an ungrateful brat who didn’t get her way. Nothing is guaranteed here or anywhere else.

I'm completely dumbfounded that any college age girl would feel like there were fewer social opportunities in any sorority than she would have as an independent. Second, I can't figure out how in the world some parents let their little chickees grow up to feel so entitled that they would belittle the only sororities that wanted them. Are they totally unaware of the irony? Perhaps the mom writing this crap doesn't know that the alumna chapters in Dallas have women from all over the country, including places where the sororities she's too good for are the #1 sorority on campus. Also, are there seriously people who, in the 21st century, are so small that they would feel "less than" because they weren't in the "popular" alumna group? My grandmother would tell you to stand up straight, that you were as good as anybody else. It's laughable in this day and age that you think anyone under the age of 45 believes this crap.

Just curious how you expect #8 to reach quota when PNMs like yourself think you are too good and would rather drop than GOD FORBID go to a house you feel is beneath you? Get over yourself... every woman in that house is a better person than you.

Funny that I have never heard a PNM say they dropped because they “didn’t feel a connection”’ when she was left with what are considered “top” houses. 🤷🏻‍♀️

TCU? That's a reach.

As a sixth generation Texan, your last statement warms my heart.

Have a great time in Alabama!

good grades but somehow pays full price to SMU with no scholarship. makes sense