dropped by all nine? what did i do wrong?

Oh, I’m really sorry that happened to you girl. I understand how bad you must feel but honestly it doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you. The system isn’t perfect and sometimes girls just fall through the cracks, especially since there were so many PNMS this year. You could definitely try to rush next year, but for now I’d try to focus your time on the friends and activities that you’re already part of! Hope this helps:)

Are you a dude?

I am truly sorry that you are going through this. It seems so random and unfair. I think there were a record number of PNMs participating this year and I suspect it was purely a numbers challenge. I know this is not comforting to you, but you really seem like a genuinely great girl and I hope you find your friend group

You can still sleep with all the frat boys just like the top tiers. They rejected you, now ruin all their relationships. JK

Are you really being honest? Are you obese? Are you butterfaced? Are you socially backwards? How are your grades? Are you not white...

Is it that hard to be a GDI at this school?

Do not stress or blame your self. I know so many amazing girls who are unaffiliated and some that had the same thing happen to them. Your newly affiliated friends are going to be sucked into the process for a little but once new member period calms down they should be back to hanging out with you. Join clubs! The best thing about rushing as a sophomore is knowing girls in orgs and this will give you a much better chance next year! Look at this as an advantage, you know what to expect now and now that your friends are affiliated you can get a better idea of the process.

It isn’t anything you did wrong....

how do u know she’s a unique person and the system left her out? the person was only asking about her social media, gpa, weight, and looks because certain sororities will cut girls for some of these things. the person was genuinely asking it’s not like they were saying they agreed with how it worked

You were probably dropped by your parents too. Enjoy geedom.

Honestly, you probably didn't make yourself memorable. Sororities are looking for girls they could see as their potential sister. Next time try to make yourself stand out more and form a connection with the girls you talk to.

I was dropped too and can’t understand what went wrong. I wore the right clothes and smiled so much that my cheeks still hurt. It really seems random to me.