advice for pnm pls

No lol that’s how ranks work. Just choose where you feel comfortable and stop caring about the ranks bye

i feel you girl but unfortunately that’s how srat ranks end up working. girls judged on the superficial things like hottest girls and it’s all fake. if it’s a top house, odds are they care less about sisterhood and charity and more about partying and looks and money. go where you feel like your heart is happiest and if those things are important to you, when you visit the houses just try to get a feel about rlly cares about it. good luck:)

Worry about finding a home that have girls that are a lot like you, it is there that you will find what matters, finding friends and a sisterhood that you will have for life. Rankings really don’t matter unless you are in one of the ones that “think” they are the best” or in one that gets ranked low and they have to defend themselves so that PNMs don’t judge them without really giving them a chance. I have friends that are Kappas, DZ, ADPi, AXO, and Phi Mus and all except one of these houses are about the same with the same type of lovely ladies and I would be happy in any of those 4. Since I didn’t see much difference in a few of the houses, I chose my pref based on the charity they sponsor.