legacy for axp not impressed

Hey yall im currently a freshman at wcu and am a legacy for AXP i went to a party there and it was just a bunch of dudes sitting around and music went off before 1am! not sure if thats something i want to be apart of who else should i check out? i was mainly focused on rushing there for my pops but cant stand to be with guys who had 20 girls max at there “party”