recruitment

So if I have a 4.0 from high school and only attended wsu for one semester and got a 2.7 due to the loss of an immeadiately family member (and Im actually having my grades reviewed and should be changed to around a 3.2) but the recruitment office told me since I'm still technically a freshman and being put down as one the sororities will refer to my highschool gpa more. I also have a wsu alumni of one house trying to help me get in, would I still have a good chance at recruitment or not? Should I email each recruitment chair and tell them about my situation of losing a family member and my grades being updated just to be safe?