Having a girlfriend is ruining my life

I already have lots of commitments with school/ my fraternity and having a girlfriend is sucking out the rest of my free time when I'm supposed to be playing video games and partying. Now I always have to go on annoying dates, meet her overbearing family, let her snoop through my phone and emails, and prode me with questions every night. It's so exhausting and it's already ruining my life and I'm only 22 years old. Is this what marriage is going to be like? Please god kill me now