Unsure about life

I am about to join WSU as freshman and I am wondering what should I do? I really wish to be greek but I don't think that might happen this semester. I was just interested in looking at different houses with my Rho-Chi to see which house is the best for me. I'm upset if we can't have social gathering and we need to stay at home and we don't have any homecomings or footballs. I was just looking to study hard, have nice sorority sisters and be social. Have my dreams been crush ? )':