gdi's at frat parties

PSA STOP COMING TO THE PARTIES PLEASE! It's disrespectful.
We made the active choice to be a part of a group or a community and we went through things and still have to go through things, for example as a girl, we go to chapter every monday, or we have to go to mandatory speakers, as do guys in order to be a part of this community and dorm people just want to get drank out and it's basically a freebie which is really annoying. Wouldn't it be annoying if you joined a club, paid membership fees, did a bunch of other stuff for the club and then when it comes to a fun activity all of a sudden a bunch of people who didn't go through what you went through get to also enjoy, it's just not fair.
Plus dorm girls are a liability because sororities have this thing called toast bar to encourage guys to walk us home which is not a big deal because it is only a couple blocks away but dorm girls live way too far. I've seen a girl during halloweek not able to walk home and guys in the house not knowing what to do because she just passed out on their couch. Obviously I know that not all dorm girls are sloppy but just a general rule it is still a liability that no one wants to deal with and just makes everyone uncomfortable.