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how to handle being dropped?

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Any advice? I'm pretty disappointed in my list today

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#1  by: Just    
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Trust the process. Everybody ends up where they belong!

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#2  by: Dkkdciic   
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Don’t listen to the other comment. Still feel out other houses and realize other girls have it worse. BUT, at the end of the day, if you don’t think you’d be happy there then drop and do COB. The process is stupid and girls can’t get to know you from 10 mins of a conversation.

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by: DkkdciicSep 10, 2019 11:14:47 PM

Seriously, I took a bid from a place that I ended up miserable at and I dropped so please take my advice

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#3  by: RC   
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the process can be trusted if you're relatively comfortable in the weird environment of FFR. If you're on the shy side or take a while to warm up, some houses that might love you could drop you because they can't take the risk that you're not a good fit. In that case COB is a good option.
In general, trusting the process means trusting the members to be able to see who will fit in... and they know better than you do.

A problem with the process is when the PNM isn't being herself. then the houses get the wrong impression and it's not a good fit.
Be honest in how your present yourself and be honest with where you're really going to fit. Falling in love with certain houses is unrealistic for a large percentage of the PNM group.

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